I Am Afraid to Start
Fearing how the story will end,
I am afraid to start.
Does that ever happen to you?
My mind spins a web of permutations,
Searching for the right combination,
A Choose Your Own Adventure
That I can’t put down
Until I’ve found the right path,
Only to find that what I was searching for
Wasn’t the holy grail at the end of the journey,
But the courage to begin in the first place.
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Over the years, I’ve grown to appreciate these antics of my analytical mind. It’s part of the creativity that goes into both my artistic and intellectual work, but sometimes I can get so caught up in these mental gymnastics that I forget it’s not the whole story.
Yesterday morning, I was sitting outside with my coffee, procrastinating the start of my morning practice. Several years ago, I committed to a daily morning practice as a promise I to myself that the first thing I did each day would be to tune into my body, mind, heart and spirit. Over time, I’ve found simple and short practices that work for me. By now it's become a habit, but some days (like yesterday) I feel pulled in other directions and start bargaining with myself. “Why don’t I just start writing that essay first?” Or, “I should walk the dogs before it gets too hot and do my practice later.” Or, “Maybe I should take a few more pictures of the nest the wrens are building on the back of the house.”
When I finally coaxed myself into my practice, I noticed that my mind quickly went into the weeds of a project I am just beginning to formulate, then to some preparations I need to do for a trip, onto phone calls I needed to make, and all sorts of other details and dramas of my life. I followed the winding trails of thought as they looped and twisted through imagined possibilities and alternatives, weaving in and out of various envisioned futures. Over time I became lost in these streams as they twisted and turned back over each other, wrestling over details, trying to figure out a plan.
I’m not sure when or how things shifted, but at some point in the middle of all these tangled thoughts, I heard a gentle voice say softly, “Let this be bigger than you.”
“But if it’s bigger than me,” I responded, “I’ll never be able to figure it out on my own.”
“Yes,” said the voice, “that’s the whole point.”